In regards to my intentions to motivate/inspire my children - along the path of self-realization - I have discovered inner conflicts that I must truly consider. Conflicts within myself that must be used for self growth. How do I become this catalyst without violating their Freewill? FREEWILL- this is our ultimate gift, although is also called (the law of confusion) because you are your only guide. This Carol and I have decided is most important for the children. It is all to easy to dictate and demand of your children, but how do I inspire them? Rather than dominate? To walk this balance requires the utmost self awareness of your own inner consciousness.
I have attempted to keep my distance completely and live as an example among them. Only observing, not judging, trusting them. We lead conversations to generate consciousness for us. We feel they can teach us as well. Children, free from domestications. We introduce viewing materials to open their minds and stimulate interest about their unboundedness.
I must be clear that I have no expectations of them needing to be a clone,rather; them to come to the realization of their own significance and find their inspiration here. Discover their genuine curiosity of themselves. For them to take steps towards developing a timeless relationship with themselves.
With this in mind, I have become aware of tendencies to use a formula for success; from my own past endevours that have proven successful for myself on a personal basis. Although, this brutish form of control is one that I have come not to prefer. Extreme dicipline far removed from flexibility or Joy of Process. This pattern I have turned to when confronted with inner/self expectations not met.
I do not want expectations for my children, and force them to achieve them by a pattern I have utilized and have come to not prefer. Rather, preferences would be preferred for them and myself be happy with all. I wish to guide them without breaking their (so important) Will.
They can appear at times uninterested - even bothered at times with my suggestions- this can lead to inner feelings of being offended. This is a most unhealthy and ugly sensations. This may appear negative, but with clear vision and honesty I have come to realize that everything here on this planet - everything we experience - is a blessing! With true vision all is used to see the love, and help us transcend the seeming inner shadows and see the truth of what we are in the Light of Love. My children thru fatherhood ar teaching me.
This is my own personal work. This is my Blessing. I must surrender and Lovingly step into my destiny. I must remain centered on my path. My path as a father, teacher, student, friend.
I would gladly give them anything, therefore; I must give them unconditional love and respect above all- their Freewill.
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